- CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep of
- CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
Sex starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his penis will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don’t mix
- CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don’t keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration
- CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don’t judge him; support him to break the habit
- CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife’s tone can easily turn off a man. A wife’s tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won’t enjoy your presence, he won’t desire you
- CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband’s advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away
- CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman’s husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you.
- CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, it will affect him just like it would affect you if he did it to you.
Class dismissed