Bro Kwaku, please, good evening,
I want to know why men are not persistent anymore. Especially with we women.
Hmmmm. There’s this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.
All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn’t really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.
About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.
I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn’t want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn’t talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal.
That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn’t ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.
He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply “not yet.”
Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it, but he never did.
Just recently, he told me he was going to marry in July. I didn’t even believe it but I’ve also heard it from other staffs. I asked further and its a lady from the same place we are both working.
For days now, I’ve not been myself. I love this guy. I’ve waited months for him to ask me out again but all these while, he wasn’t talking about it because of someone else and now, he wants to marry her.
He wasn’t even persistent with me. He knew I was single and would probably consider him but he didn’t persist. Why are men not persistent anymore? Can’t we even be treated and understood to be ladies anymore. I’ve lost appetite, I’m soo sick because this guy was supposed to be mine. I am really hurt Kay what do I do?
Source :love&pill